Lessons in Ordinary Life

I originally started this blog due to the encouragement of my now husband, Joe, when I was teaching a 4th grade catechism class at my childhood grade school. Over a year has gone by since I've done anything with the blog... and by anything, I mean nothing.

This morning while getting ready for work, Joe, so graciously reminded me of the blog when we saw our cat, Biscuit, doing something interesting. As Joe and I are beginning to put our home in order, I have laid a crucifix at the bottom of our bed with the intention of hanging it in the bedroom. It has been sitting there for a while as I've been trying to figure out the best location for it. This morning, Biscuit, decided to cuddle close to it.

You see everyday life, no matter how grandiose or mundane, is a call to learn a lesson from God. Today He decided to reinforce a lesson through none other than Biscuit.

Since prior to our wedding in June and for the months following, there has been a lot of rocky roads we've had to travel. I can tell you that this has not been the typical "we just got married honeymoon" phase. Instead, we've been gifted with a series of trials - and yes, I used the word gifted.

I've realized that more and more, suffering is a gift. It's an invitation to be closer to our Lord - to become more like him through everyday experiences - some of which are painful. Whether it be waiting at a red light, helping a child with homework, losing a parent, losing a job, whatever, God is always present. He's waiting for us to take Him up on his offer of love - to carry our cross and be transformed in the process.

We have a choice. Do we cling to it or run from it?

God's wisdom is a mystery. Although I have many questions, I choose to trust in Him. He is my Creator and knows exactly how I need to be molded for my own salvation. The sandpaper of everyday life is exactly what is needed to rub off my rough edges and conform me to be more Christ-like. Running only prolongs the suffering but when facing it head-on with the grace of God, it can be managed. I just have to remember to make the choice to accept His grace and move forward through hellish times and not so hellish times. Progress doesn't happen by standing still (at least not while you are standing in what feels like hell).

Prayer:
Thank you Jesus for these trials. Please help me to be more open to your grace to accept them and embrace the gift in which you have called me to be closer to Yourself.